Family Life


Coming to Terms With Our Dreams

By Ilana Grinblat

In this week’s column, Rabbi Ilana Grinblat discusses biblical Joseph’s transformation from a dreamer to a dream interpreter — and relates the story to her own young son’s (easily fulfilled) wish.Read More


Gender Segregation Plan Stirs Anger

By Nathan Jeffay

Israel’s medical establishment is reacting angrily to revelations that the country’s Health Ministry is working on a plan to make Jerusalem’s two largest psychiatric institutions single-gender.Read More


The Courage To Lose

By Ilana Grinblat

Rabbi Ilana Grinblat writes about her young son’s response to a television wrestling match and about the biblical Jacob’s divine wrestling match. From both, she draws lessons about the sometimes-hidden blessings of defeat.Read More


Intermarriage 101: No Line in the Sand

By Nathan Guttman

Marion Usher, a DC-based psychotherapist, leads interfaith couple workshops — already attended by 450 couples — that seek to erase the proverbial line in the sand in favor of inclusiveness.Read More


Is Birthright Israel an Intermarriage Panacea?

By Paul Golin

Move over Jewish day schools. There’s a new intermarriage panacea in town, and its name is Birthright Israel.Read More


My Obstetrician’s Rx: Liverwurst

By Deborah Kolben

A native New Yorker, Deborah Kolben was living in Berlin when she found out she was pregnant with her first child. In this essay, she discusses playing charades in the obstetrician’s office, being prescribed blood sausage and her complicated feelings about the prospect of giving birth in Germany.Read More


Few Jewish Workplaces Have Family-Friendly Policies

By Gabrielle Birkner

Women make up about three-quarters of the Jewish communal work force, but few Jewish organizations have formal policies that guarantee access to paid maternity leave and flexible work arrangements — and fewer still offer paid paternity leave.Read More


The Queer Queen of Comedy

By Michael Kaminer

Carol Leifer’s comic memoir, “When You Lie About Your Age, The Terrorists Win,” is unflinchingly honest, which shouldn’t surprise anyone who squirmed in recognition of the embarrassing truths she nailed when she was a writer on “Seinfeld.”Read More


Reluctant Mitzvah

By Rabbi Deborah Wechsler

In this essay, Rabbi Deborah Wechsler discusses the challenges of being a loving mother and participating in the Jewish ritual circumcision of her newborn son.Read More


Southern Fried Jewish Bride

By Allison Gaudet Yarrow

Initially ambivalent about returning to her native South to get married, Allison Gaudet Yarrow recounts the complicated and often humorous task of orchestrating the big Southern Jewish wedding her mother always dreamed of, and learns to see the beauty in the strangeness.Read More